"It's funny, how love can creep up on you when you least expect it, and how its intensity is never something that you can prepare for," Roxie replied. "I'm sorry about your loss, Joe. It must be terrible to go through a loss like that."

She set her fork down, her food only half-eaten, and stared at him for a moment. "Do you...do you go visit her?" Her grave is what Roxie meant.